It’s hard to believe my father is already in his 80s, mainly because he’s so young at heart. He doesn’t believe in retirement, although he has scaled back his work hours in the past few years. Even at home, he’s busy with his garden, landscaping his yard, and studying his Bible. He’s one of the few people I know who will spend hours in his Bible.
I was fortunate growing up to have such a godly man as a father. Dad was the epitome of Deuteronomy 6:4-7. When someone loves the Lord as much as he does, it can’t be contained.
Whether I worked alongside him in the garden or in his cleaning business, Dad easily talked about the evidence of God in the world around us. God’s love flowed through Dad. All you have to do is spend sixty seconds with my father talking about God, and you feel God’s presence.
Dad taught us the value of work—and that the quality of our work reflects our character. Perhaps this is why even at his age, his phone still rings off the hook with people begging him to do something with their yards after letting other landscapers have a go at them.
My father was not college educated. In fact, he dropped out of school and went into the military. He had a cleaning company for years before transitioning into landscaping. All of his children, at one time or another, worked for him. In addition to cleaning offices, we cleaned churches and the local Jewish synagogue. I learned much about other denominations, as well as the Jewish culture and beliefs.
To lighten the workload on Saturday, we kids swept the massive amount of sidewalks around the churches on Friday. No such thing as blowers back then! Sometimes on Saturday, Dad made us sweep them again. When we complained, he’d say, “You swept them yesterday because it was your job. You’re sweeping them today to show appreciation for that job.”
This standard of excellence followed him when he began landscaping full time. A few years ago, a sorority house at the University of Florida won the city’s Best Yard Award—recognition of my dad’s work. Despite efforts to get him to accept the award at the formal dinner and be celebrated with the other category winners, Dad declined. He urged the young ladies at the sorority to go in his place.
You see, Dad’s never worked for human accolades. He works for God, and thus, when Dad transforms unimaginative landscapes into works of art, you see God’s handiwork through my father. His thoughtfulness, care, and talent produce a masterpiece equal to Picasso or Rembrandt.
Only the hardest heart could spend five minutes with my father in discussion about God and walk away untouched. Dad doesn’t preach or witness with the salvation plan. He talks about God’s love. And this love flows through his voice and washes over you like a cool rain shower on a hot summer day. I sense God’s love and mercy through my earthly father. He didn’t just talk the scriptures to us, he lived 2 Timothy 3:16-17 such that, not only would he be equipped for God’s service, but his children would be too.
Dad wasn’t perfect, and we kids rebelled like many others. Even in these times, he was faithful in God’s message and did what he felt was best. He was consistent in his love. He did his best to equip us by modeling God’s best for us, regardless of what choices we made. His integrity spoke volumes, and we heard God’s message loud and clear through him.
I embrace the admonition from 2 Timothy 3:14-15 to continue in what I’ve learned from my father. There’s not any place I’d rather be than at my father’s knee receiving instruction and basking in God’s love, even now that I’m in my fifties. I praise the Lord for my Christian dad. And one day, he will stand before His Father in heaven. While Dad won’t be able to claim perfection, he’ll be able to claim consistency in impressing upon his children God’s love, mercy, and faithfulness.
No doubt, Dad will hear these words from Matthew’s Gospel: “Well done, my good and faithful servant!”
What did your earthly father model for you that you’re most thankful for?
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