Do You Need to Tighten the Lid on Your Heart?

Do You Need to Tighten the Lid on Your Heart?

If my husband and I were to go on the Newlywed or Not-So-Newlywed Game, I know several of his go-to answers. If he were asked “What is one thing that annoys you most about your wife?” He would say that I do not screw the caps of things back on tightly. It’s true. I don’t. I guess I am ready to move on to the next thing, or I get distracted by something shiny…you get the picture. Many a time he has showered the kitchen with capsules or dropped a jar on the floor due to my lack of follow-through. He has shown immeasurable grace with me in this area and I vow to work on this habit all the time. I am trying to get better at putting caps on things. Even if he doesn’t see when I do put the lids on tight, I am doing it because I love him and doing things right by him are important to me.

On a different note, I loved Play-Doh as a kid. What a great invention. Nothing was worse than being excited to play with it, then discovering that someone had left the lid off and it was hard as a rock. Craft and play time came to a screeching halt. It didn’t matter who left the lid off (it was probably me); the end result was something that was not usable, but totally preventable.

I have experienced this spiritually when it comes to my heart. When I don’t seek a relationship with God on a regular basis, or stay grounded in scripture, I am very apt to give in to my own desires, such as making the opinions of others more important than God’s, or to fall prey to laziness or the intoxicating effects of social media, which can quickly harden or soften my heart, depending on the post. When I leave the lid off my spiritual life and don’t realize it, my heart starts to slowly harden and I start acting in a manner that isn’t consistent with a life led by the Lord.

God made the people of Judah this promise in Ezekiel:

I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh. Then they will follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.  They will be my people, and I will be their God. But as for those whose hearts are devoted to their vile images and detestable idols, I will bring down on their own heads what they have done, declares the sovereign Lord. (Ezekiel 11:19-21)

I think he was saying to the Israelites: “I am giving you a new, soft heart and if you keep it in the container with the lid on—in other words, follow my decrees and keep my laws—your hearts won’t harden and you will stay my people.” If they “left the lid off” or didn’t follow his decrees and went the way of their idols, there was no way back. We know from many passages in the Old Testament that God is a God of mercy and gave the Israelites many chances to do the right thing.

Things changed dramatically for our benefit when Jesus died on the cross. When God sacrificed His Son, he tightened the lid on each of our hearts and souls. We humans will always make a mistake and “leave the lid off” because we are sinners. But if we ask for forgiveness, He will put the lid back on EVERY SINGLE TIME to preserve us for eternity.

It is always my goal when  I sin to try to correct that behavior and do right the next time because of the sacrifice that was made for me. No matter how hard your heart has gotten, no matter how great the sin, if you turn to Him he will give you a new heart.

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Ask Him this:

Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. (Psalm 51:10)

You can prevent your heart and soul from getting hardened if you they are continually sealed up tight with the promise of the Holy Spirit.   

Tell me in the comments below what habit you have that you would like to change?



My Special Valentine

My Special Valentine

“Ten little fingers “…ten tiny toes.”

My heart melted at the sound of my son’s voice. I grasped the phone tightly, trying to bring him closer. “Mom,” Robert said in almost a whisper, “She is beautiful.” In that moment, hearing of the birth of our second grandchild, the first girl, a new love burst open in my heart. Sight unseen, not yet holding her, the sheer force of this thing called love grew.

I was in Louisiana on a business trip, checking in by phone as the family anxiously and happily anticipated the arrival of Loren Marie. Robert let me know both mother and child were doing fine. He was basking in the warmth of a new love that only a father can understand. A new love that weighed in at 7 ½ lbs. and was sleeping peacefully in his arms. This new little human, so unaware of life, totally dependent on her parents, had no concept that she was now miraculously the most important person in the world to her mommy and daddy. Robert knew.

He knew they would love her, care for her and guide her through life. That baby girl is a young woman now. She is a teacher, a lover of words and books, independent, talented. She was well launched into adulthood by her parents.

God is love.

Loren was born on Valentine’s Day. It is the day we symbolize with a heart: a day to remind us and for us to celebrate the loves in our lives.

I am reminded of the very first Bible verse I learned as a small child. In 1 John 4:8 it says “God is love.

Loren was our second grandchild. There are now 11 grandchildren in the family and with each one my heart has grown to hold the love they bring into my life. If you are a grandparent, you know exactly what I mean.

“You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body, and knit them together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! It’s amazing to think about. Your workmanship is marvelous and how well I know it,”
Psalm 139: 13-14

A few days ago Loren posted the following question on Facebook: ‘If you write an Autobiography, how would you describe the intersection of our first meeting?” Her father’s prompt response was: “Ten little fingers” ten tiny toes. I read his response with a smile and tear as I recalled tender, precious memories of a joyful day.

Our family is blessed with an abundance of grands. There is great joy and great chaos when we gather. Yet as much as we grandparents and parents love those children, God loves them more.

We are all unique, created by our heavenly Father. His love for us knows no bounds. He gave us life and life eternal through His son Jesus Christ.

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whosoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life,” John 3:16, ESV

I pray as you read these words that you know God’s love. Do you have a special memory of your children or grandchildren being born?
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